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Weekend Ethereal Night: 1/ Discussing tree burial, sea burial and various eco-friendly burial options, assessment and deep considerations during the season of life and death. 2/ Resolving the multi-layered life karma entanglements of love, money, law, and spirit, avoiding the lure of ghost words and the abyss of ignorance. - YouTube

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Foreword

It’s not just my own relatives, but also friends in my closer circle, because when things are related to these matters recently, there is still a reason. This reason, for me, isn’t just about the general environment, or the train from the underworld or another world coming to pick some people up. Sometimes it really is like that. I actually always feel that, although in this world, especially in hospitals and wards, birth, old age, sickness, and death happen every day, I feel that for different people, the proximity is different.

So, This week, the proximity is very close to me, And this proximity, If it’s the passing of an elder in someone else’s family, It has nothing to do with us, But indirectly it reaches me, So, If it reaches me, it’s not that I’m analyzing anything, It’s that there are many discussions, Opinions messaged privately to me, And even some related connections, So what does it mean when these connect to me? I am busy with my own things, So naturally in this aspect, There are also some reminders.

For example, I have that elder in Beijing, Including that elder, Actually, he was somewhat kind to me, But I originally thought, But because of my own, Rebirth blankets (Wang Sheng Bei) made twenty years ago, I only have three rebirth blankets left, Although I very much, I had the thought of whether to help him, But it seems that with my current, Family’s own, Self-use needs to prepare, Rebirth blankets are still, Not many left, So it’s unlikely, When I need it myself, There are some key ones, So I couldn’t help, So this matter might be reminding me, This rebirth blanket plan, Still needs to follow my own, Follow my own, Schedule to proceed.

Before we start talking, The first topic today is like this, The second topic I want to talk about is also, It just so happens that this week living people also dealt with some problems, But among the problems dealt with by living people, It is related to yin and yang, life and death, The spiritual realm is somewhat related, So the problems that living people indirectly came to ask, Are a bit troublesome and complicated, It involves relationships and marriage, Involves money, Involves the law, The most troublesome thing, Because it involves, Things we mentioned before, Infant spirits and the like, That is to say, in the process of two people, Because it involves, The matter of abortion, But this matter, It is entangled in related matters, Coincidentally, At first, it was a friend, Who came to ask me, And because his matter is relatively complicated, These four big lumps, Tied together, Really tire people to death.

So of course I, Based on my understanding of him, Have already provided some diagnosis, And some concrete, Reminders of the way out, But I don’t know why, Just in these two days, similar things came again, So I think it’s very interesting, Why is it all like this recently, Of course, there are many conclusions, I think, Examples, for instance, How to deal with infant spirits, Not how to deal with it, Not finding someone to deal with it, But how you deal with it yourself, You yourself are the involved party, The one who had the abortion, Young at that time, Clueless little father, Or little mother, How do you deal with it, Actually, since I was young, Regarding the matter of abortion, The so-called infant spirit part, Tormenting and entangling, When I was young, Wait until my elders, Can be said to be older than me, Twenty or thirty years older, To now people younger than me, Twenty or thirty years younger, Still deeply entangled, I also don’t know about this matter, Is it very easy and simple, Actually, I really didn’t expect that, I thought, Science or various knowledge, Have already reached, reached this level, Can still torment everyone, So dead and alive, So I also want to, Talk about this matter in passing.

So I talked about two topics today, The first is of course related to the deceased, Tree Burial, especially focused, On the matter of Eco-friendly Burial, I have my views, I think I previously in, Late-night live broadcast, I mentioned it, But I think what I said at the time, Was a bit more reserved, that is, respecting everyone, But today I will speak plainly, I won’t be polite.

Simply put, Sea Burial and Tree Burial have many problems, I am not opposing, But there are some conditions that must be noted, It can’t be like what everyone thinks in their hearts, That is, Eco-friendly Burial, Eco-friendly must be good, I think that’s all nonsense and bullshit, Very serious, that is, Very serious and prudent, In conducting Sea Burial or Tree Burial, And it has some, Important prerequisites, I think are very important, So today I want to put all these things, Rarely I think once, To make it clear, I will speak plainly, I won’t be polite anymore, So in here, I think if the things spoken today, I will involve some conceptual aspects, Those interested can listen.

Pre-death Preparation

Okay, first let’s talk about, The first topic today, That is talking about burial, Earth Burial, I want to finish talking about it once today, I will focus on finishing it today, In the future, I won’t, Talk about it much.

I think today, Today put my views on, How to deal with it after passing away, I am not talking about these funeral companies, But these Cremation, Earth Burial, etc., All my thoughts on this matter, All my personal research over these decades, I want to speak plainly once and for all.

First, it’s like this, I always emphasize one point, I don’t understand, Why now, Every time someone in the family passes away, I feel a very baffling point, That is, The living, that is, the descendants and family members, Descendants and family members of course will also have some worries, And also have some questions.

First, Seventy or eighty percent of people, Did not prepare in advance at all, Actually, family elders, Actually not necessarily elders, That is, if sick or whatever, There are really not many people who are truly prepared in advance, I also don’t understand, For example, already sick, Already seriously ill, already cancer, And not preparing, And not, for example, Picking out a good-looking photo in advance, That is to say, everyone in birth, old age, sickness, and death, In this aspect, Not speaking of others, actually regarding the matter of death, Always avoiding and avoiding, So avoiding for half a day, Not preparing until the very end before it happens, So in the end, it’s all a mess, Or in the end, can only, Be at the mercy of others, At the mercy of funeral companies, Or various aspects, Anyway, first of all, this one thing is, Already a very baffling thing itself.

Of course, I can also understand, Because regarding, Death, everyone is avoidant, Unwilling to face it too much, So there’s no way, Actually, it’s inevitable that it’s like this.

But can only advise everyone, The first thing is to prepare in advance, If you don’t prepare, You simply don’t have enough spare energy to think, Even if you don’t prepare for your family members who are currently sick or whatever, In the future, you will also use it, One day you will be the involved party, So frequently think about or understand a bit, Involving death, Whether it is yourself or family members who will die, What things need to be done first.

I think seeing now, Single Travel Agency, is it, Is it Little Wax Gourd (Xiao Dong Gua), And things like that, There are actually quite a few there, Relatively systematic, But everyone can go, Look at his YouTube sporadically, This first point is not preparing, Actually, everyone still, Needs to dabble a bit usually.

I feel that I now, Speak very frankly like this, Since I was young, First of course, My own special situation, I regarding death, Itself actually is, Very talented, Or remember many things, Or know, How to deal with it too, And through these more than ten years, I have a lot of participation, I participated in all the processes of birth, old age, sickness, and death of many friends, Especially including the real process of death, All kinds of deaths, I should have participated in all of them, Participated in all of them, I didn’t participate, Saying what preparing for funeral affairs, Just finding a funeral company is enough.

Focus on the Deceased

The most important second point, First is to prepare, The second part, The part I want to talk about more is, Regarding, I really want to say, I up to now, The matter of birth, old age, sickness, and death that I participated in or experienced myself, Of course, I mean someone died, In 100 cases, 100 times, Probably only encountered less than one or two, 99% 98% will be able to understand focusing on the Deceased, That is to say, birth, old age, sickness, and death, this person died, You are handling these funeral affairs, What we will mention later, Cremation, Earth Burial, Eco-friendly Burial, Sea Burial, Tree Burial, anything, All considerations, Is to focus on the Deceased, The person who died.

But among those I participated in, 98% 99%, First, they simply don’t know how to focus on the Deceased, Because the deceased is already dead and gone, The deceased cannot speak to you anymore, So don’t know how to focus on the Deceased, Of course, you didn’t prepare usually, You didn’t discuss or ask him while alive, Of course you don’t know, So but even if, Well, some know, Until the end, I’m not saying now, How much money you spend, How the memorial service is in the end, Not these things, But all considerations of all things, Of course, are the face of the living, Or the reason you don’t hold it, Because you want to save money, the living saving money, Or the interpersonal relationships of the living, etc., And not seriously considering focusing on the Deceased.

What is called focusing on the Deceased, Since it is this person who died, Just considering this person who died, Especially once this relative is our parent, Of course, you have to based on his so-called greatest welfare, To organize or do all this for him, And how much to do, how long to do, how thoroughly to do, Everyone is different, Just like everyone is different when sick, Everyone is different when old, Birth, old age, sickness, and death, Everyone wants birth, old age, sickness, Everyone is different, Death is of course more different, And death is the end of a life, It is more complicated, more subtle, and multi-layered than birth, old age, and sickness.

So I say in the process of my participation, To be able to focus on the Deceased, What does it mean to be able to focus on the Deceased, Of course, the specific key point is regarding the deceased’s wishes, The deceased’s own wishes, Although the deceased has wishes, Sometimes he has no knowledge, He has no experience and he hasn’t died, But now he finally died, So the deceased’s wishes, The deceased’s background, The deceased’s optimal condition, This of course requires an overall assessment, Even now that he has passed away, Is there anyone or any way, To know the person who just passed away, How is his condition now, You say how to know, Damn it, you are on Earth, Someone will know, Someone will always have Yin-Yang eyes, Someone will always communicate, Then you say where do I find them, You didn’t prepare usually, You of course didn’t cultivate connections with people with Yin-Yang eyes, Of course you don’t know, Then at that moment, Usually, you should cultivate some people who can communicate with Yin and Yang, And real communication, not those scammers, Right?

Parents who usually chant Buddha and practice do not need much to be done for them if they pass away naturally

But I say, The so-called death needs preparation, If you can understand, When evaluating the deceased generally, You of course will prepare the most for him, You won’t do more, If this person doesn’t need much done at all, You don’t need to do more.

I’ll give an example, If your deceased, your parent, Originally usually chanted Buddha and practiced, And was very kind and very good, Then the process of his passing, Whether it was sudden passing, Or explained well and passed away naturally, You just understanding him a little more, That is, this person percentage don’t say hundred, As long as seventy or eighty percent or more, Can go to a very good place, Actually, if they can go to the Land of Ultimate Bliss, He will definitely be able to ascend to heaven, He is just kind, Did many things in his later years usually, What I want to say, Once it is a VIP like this, That is, heaven wishes, To be able to invite this deceased, To join them, So for a deceased like this, Everyone, what you need to do is very, very little, You don’t need to do much, Whether you want to chant for assistance, His memorial service, The simpler the better, Because he will go to a good place, He might at the moment of passing, Have no attachment to this world and just left, That is to say, you might still be chanting for assistance there, Shedding tears, He has long transformed, To heaven, Or to the Land of Ultimate Bliss, That is to say, the reason you can participate, Actually, you are basking in the light, So for a person like this, You Do less, Just do everything to the simplest.

So for example, if you can serve a relative of yours who is a practitioner passing away, You are really happy to death, everyone, You don’t need to do anything extra, Not necessary.

And you don’t need to say anything about specially chanting scriptures and dedicating merits for him, Chanting scriptures is helping you, You are basking in the light, You chant scriptures for him, You are just basking in the light.

But the problem is everyone, The kind of person I just mentioned, Is there one in a thousand? None, Few and far between, Most of the others, our relatives passing away, 99.99% end up as ghosts, In the short term, All wandering in the human world, 99% impossible to ascend to heaven, Land of Ultimate Bliss is even harder than hard, Because basically, Good roots are not enough, Merits and virtues are not enough, How is it possible to go?

So what I want to say today, Ideally speaking, Is because it is so, So since he has a great possibility, First staying wandering in the human world, Wandering at home or in his cemetery, etc.

Evaluate the deceased’s religious beliefs, profession, personality, relatives, friends

Then it involves, Today we are talking about Eco-friendly Burial, Why 99% of people cannot have Sea Burial, Actually, he says I want Sea Burial, You also cannot Sea Burial, You going to Tree Burial Eco-friendly Burial, You have to choose the place carefully.

I think in the whole of Taiwan, I look from south to north, Places for Tree Burial, Only Dharma Drum Mountain is okay, Although I haven’t seen all other places, Other places all need careful assessment.

Today I will talk about a few important conditions for Tree Burial, Everyone pay attention, It’s not that you just casually do it, Because our deceased, Family members who passed away, Basically first, Were not prepared for their own death, They regarding the changes in the entire life state after death, Did not figure it out themselves, Had a lot of fear and a lot of emotions, Had a lot of attachments.

So for them, It requires long-term care, You think you might have cared for parents in old age or relatives for many years, Seven years, eight years, ten years, and finally passed away, You feel relieved and it comes to an end, No everyone, If you don’t do it well, He is still wandering at home or in the cemetery and still suffering.

So you might still want to spend a few years, To continue chanting scriptures and dedicating merits, After passing away, You might still want to chant scriptures, I want to accompany them, To handle some transformation well, So speaking of this, we are just talking about a general theory.

So first of all, the first thing, If interested, Everyone take notes, Whether listening later or not, That is to say, actually before people pass away, Or just passed away, Actually, it is best before passing away, Family members, you should conduct some assessments, That is to say, I now if, Some friends have indirect karma opportunities, And relate to me, Those unrelated to me, If you ask me and it’s unrelated to me, Will I pay attention to you, That is, mainly this deceased, First, a friend has a connection with me, Second, this deceased, Ultimately still has a connection with me, I will probably do a few assessments, This is called a very rough overall assessment, But this is important.

First, what is the first assessment? Everyone please note, First to assess, Part of this deceased’s Beliefs, Does he have any Religious Beliefs, I think Religious Beliefs is not saying, He occasionally goes to worship on the first and fifteenth.

Generally speaking, does he really have, I don’t say how deep, Does he really have some degree of belief, But also don’t feel, Only like Buddhism, Taoism, Christianity, Catholicism, these sects, Is often just a broad classification.

The belief I want to talk about is, For example, he might believe, he might specially believe in Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva (Guanyin), He specially believes in Amitabha Buddha, Specially believes in Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva (Earth Store Bodhisattva).

Whether you are Buddhist, He has a sense of belonging, This so-called belief, Other religions too, I know in general Taoism rarely says, He specially believes in Mazu, Guan Sheng Di Jun, Xuan Tian Shang Di, etc., all are okay.

But saying his belief I want to say, Not saying his Taoism, He is not a taxonomy, Also including this classification, Mainly saying, To explore, The tendency of his Religious Belief, But not the kind where he occasionally dips in soy sauce, Is there still proximity, I think based on my contact, I think at least nine out of ten people actually have a tendency towards belief, Truly atheists, this part is really rare.

So belief, I want to talk about belief category, Including belief is us pointing out, In his life, Can have a regarding, More divine side, more transcendent side, Especially related to after death, Some kind of traction, Some kind of centripetal force, Some kind of connection.

Because in death, At the moment of death the power of belief after death, If there is, The help of this part, Is very important, I-Kuan Tao or whatever is fine.

So pay attention to belief, Then this belief will also involve, For example, he is a Buddhist, Maybe his relatives are all Christians.

Everyone, Among Buddhists, Christians, Children insisting on parents, Doing Mass and not doing Buddhist beliefs, This thing is really not good.

Similarly, you are a Christian, Child is a Buddhist, You insist among parents, Not letting him do Mass, You do Buddhist rituals for him, Really not good.

Because Focus on the Deceased I want to emphasize, Everyone must always remember, What is the deceased’s karma, Respect the deceased’s karma.

I mean, You certainly Buddhist, You want to hold a, Buddhist service for him, You definitely children are all Christians, Although I additionally everyone I add value, I additionally regarding my own belief, I the living, I as the child, I pray to God, I pray to Virgin Mary, I pray to Jesus Christ, Similarly can receive, Similarly can help, Similarly allow light to shine, Accompany my Buddhist parents, This is enough, But don’t force it.

Everyone this kind, Attribute of culture and belief energy, It will involve, The space after death, The condition of life combination after death, Like you want to reincarnate in Japan, Reincarnate in America, Reincarnate in Africa, Reincarnate in Central and South America, Still related.

So focus on the deceased needs to be emphasized, Just talked about belief, This part of belief also includes what? Profession, what work does he do? He might be retired in his later years in this life, But did he kill pigs, Or build ships, Is he a housekeeper, All these need to be figured out.

Then understand his personality, Is his personality relatively cheerful, Personality relatively shy, Then understand his relatives, Which children are there, Which main relatives are there, Did he come from Mainland China? Is there contact with relatives in the Mainland? Then in his life before coming to Taiwan, Only probably himself alone, Is he especially, Missing his mother, Mother in the Mainland, Because some traction, Will connect to, Older generation relatives in Mainland China, Of course also including his friends.

Because if he has special, Friends he cares about, Or something like that, For example, I also chatted with everyone, For example, first love, I don’t want to get into that detail.

I mean like I am with Mother Wang, I would discuss her first love with Mother Wang, I just confirm Mother Wang, This part of her first love, Are there any traces, Will it when she passes away, Still cause her to have some, Small energy of oscillation, Does it need to be cleared?

Say it again, This path called belief, His original profession work, His personality, His relatives, His friends, This is the first lump to figure out, Actually friends, I said in the morning, Mom, the first thing I want to figure out is all this stuff.

Evaluate the Deceased’s Death Process

The second strip to figure out, Overall assessment of the deceased, Need to understand his death process, Where did he finally die? Hospital or at home, When dying, Was anyone accompanying them by their side? Or alone, Or died during surgery, Or died in sleep.

Everyone, this death process part is very, very important, Sometimes it determines everything, This death process specially, How do I say determine everything.

This death process, If it is a painful death, If it is a comatose death, For example, He was abandoned by family, Put in a nursing institution or the like, And finally died with dementia etc., Or comatose death, These for the deceased, All have influence.

That is to say, For example, parents passed away, But at the very last moment of death, Like heart attack or whatever, The matter of how he died, Will affect this deceased, us living person, Becoming an invisible deceased, But he still exists, His condition just after passing away at this time, Is related to the condition at that last moment of death.

Of course, I am not implying that comatose people become, I don’t say soul, He is still a soul, His state when just passed away, Buddhism teaches Bardo (Intermediate State), So his state is coma etc., No.

It involves the matter of death process, Why need to figure it out, Because death has its conditions, Like where in the hospital for how long, Or in a nursing institution for how long, Dementia for how long, Coma for how long, These things will all involve, How is the deceased at this moment now, Like is he drowsy and dull, Is he unable to recognize people, Is he instinctively silly, Or is he lucid and awake, Or does he have pain, Is he still in pain afterwards, Then does he have fear of death.

Everyone, The death process is very important to figure out, For me, Even this is the most important assessment, Because everyone is different.

It’s not saying, Just said comatose people, He is just comatose, But because the result involves, If it involves suicide, Describing this kind of special death, Or that he has resentment, That is, he had pain at the moment of death, For example, in the process of his death, His children were fighting over inheritance right in front of him, Quarreling to death, He was in despair, Watching children fighting and dying like this breathing his last, That is really hard, hard to persuade, Death process is the second point, Assessment of the deceased to be done.

Evaluate the Deceased’s Important Instructions During Life

The third most important part is, To understand a bit, The deceased during his life, Did he have any important instructions, Important explanations, Especially himself, Did he say he wanted Sea Burial, Wanted Tree Burial, He wanted Earth Burial, Wanted Cremation.

Everyone everyone, I am not saying he wants to do this, You have to do this, Because some people, You know old gentlemen old ladies or our relatives, Because now mobile phones are popular, You see talking about environmental protection Tree Burial, They might just keep thinking, Right, I just don’t want to burden descendants too much, He also thinks then I’ll just Sea Burial, He doesn’t know Sea Burial ship has to go out to sea, He thinks you on the seaside, Scatter on the seaside is enough, Then they just, Then you Sea Burial me, But the key point is the problem is, Old dad old mom simply can’t figure out after Sea Burial or Tree Burial, What will it become, You can’t listen to everything either.

But you have to understand, He has some instructions, When he has some inheritance, Or something like that how to deal with, These will all have influence.

For example, if he during his life, Old dad old mom, Or your relative, During life was a miser, Really exist, Don’t think after he passes away, You want to move part of his property, He can’t do anything, Or he should be able to look past it, I tell you, He was a miser during life, He can’t look past his money, 99.9999% of misers, Impossible to ascend to heaven, He definitely stays in the human world, Because he can’t let go, He can’t let go, Misers are all miserable, So why in Buddhist scriptures, You are stingy miser, And you didn’t do good deeds, Basically all fall, Because he can’t, He can’t break free, He can’t let go.

So that is to say, Your parents, Being misers this matter, You casually move his property, Although legally you can move, I tell you, He is furious, So these matters of the deceased, Their conditions, You have to assess, So you can target his overall condition on how to.

Today we will only talk about funeral matters and handling, I won’t talk about, Supervision (Chao Du/Deliverance) this matter, Supervision is a more complicated matter, To target the deceased, That is for later if there is fate.

Overall Assessment of the Deceased Itself

So we want to say, Regarding the overall assessment of the deceased itself, This matter is important, Especially since strictly speaking they are our own relatives, These are all things you should have known usually during life, You as your children, You don’t even know his beliefs, Also don’t know, When he was alive, What was his main profession, He is a seaman, He is a chef, You can’t figure it out, For example, when he was alive in the past, To take care of the family, He was selling chickens, Selling pigs selling ducks, Then had to kill chickens kill ducks, If he has these killing karmas, But he was for taking care of the family.

So you know, You must help parents, When he passes away, And after passing away, He was for loving you, He was for taking care of you, That he went to kill these having killing karma, So you of course have to, Do extra, To aid parents’ killing karma, This matter needs to make some compensation, To let parents not suffer, Otherwise, he still has to pay what should be paid, Although he was all for loving you, Isn’t it, So you of course have to help pay, Isn’t it perfectly justified, If it is so, Parents you might later, You need to chant the Ksitigarbha Sutra (Earth Store Sutra), Or you need to chant some special sutras, Or you mainly need to do repentance rituals, Instead of some prayer rituals, His direction is different, Totally different.

That is to say, The deceased himself, All these, Overall conditions of this life, Not just the funeral itself, In handling the funeral, The process of these forty-nine days, If we speak from Buddhism, It is completely different, Completely different handling.

Everyone feels, Oh so complicated, No, I tell you then speak, That is when you figure out, What needs handling, What doesn’t need handling, Can then satisfy precise preparation, Anyway, everyone please, Form a habit saying it one last time, Before parents pass away, Or just passed away, You still even siblings recall a bit, First belief, His main profession, Main profession includes work, What was he mainly devoted to doing, His personality, Passionate real personality, You have to explore ask more, Sometimes you think parents don’t talk, You discover outside oh my god, Every day dad is in the park outside, Inside dancing square dance, You can’t figure it out, You have to figure it out, You just have to really study, Like a detective agency, You have to yourself properly, Regarding your own parents, Relatively figure out relatives friends.

Second death process, Especially illness coma, Whether it is suicide, Especially inside institutions, Death process is not the moment of death, Including involving death process, Related environment prior to it.

Third, Is his important explanations and last words, Need to figure out, Not listening to all, Just need to understand his wishes his intentions need to be assessed.

Cremation (Incineration), Earth Burial

Next let’s talk about, I think the big part now, In the past would discuss Cremation and Earth Burial, Cremation and Earth Burial, I think now there shouldn’t be, Need too much discussion, Current people, Will take the whole body, All directly do Earth Burial, That is to say, Body inside the coffin, Directly buried in the earth, After ten twenty years, Then slowly, Finally decompose then pick up bones, Very few, I believe in 100, Probably 100 might have 1, Most are Cremation.

But let me say now Cremation is not called burial, Just called incineration, So I think there is no Cremation (Fire Burial), Now called incineration, Incineration or not incineration, Not incineration is Earth Burial, So I won’t talk in detail.

I am considering now, Mainly focusing on incineration, Earth Burial you find a geomantic treasure land etc., How to pick your coffin, How to put inside, I think there are subjects saying, Earth Burial is not my profession, Earth Burial although I have some understanding of it, And my father himself, Was Earth Burial at first, So I had some participation, The location of his cemetery, I think there is a theme saying, Because Earth Burial now basically, Already like analogue, Like an analog era, Not the current digital era, Now 99% are incineration, We are proceeding against this.

So after incineration, It is like this, We will come later, Immediately talk about, We mainly talk about key points, Incineration part is like this, I believe 80% 90% of remains after incineration are placed in ash urns, First some people still will bury in cemetery, Just possibly family or own, He still has a piece of land placed inside the cemetery, Just like I remember my sister’s family, Their Lin family is like this, They have a geomantic treasure land, So they actually already are, They just made a very big, Big cemetery where people can walk in, So the door can open, How can the side door open, So inside can place, The spiritual bones of the entire big family, Of course, rich people, This place of rich families, So that is to say, Still placed in the cemetery after incineration, This exists, But usually rich families, I think it is also very good, This in the past, Continuing this kind of, Part of Chinese culture, But because his demand conditions for land are large, I don’t want to talk about this matter in detail, So geomantic treasure land etc., If you now, Only want to find a geomantic treasure land yourself, To place the ash urn after incineration, It’s a long story, To be able to find good land is also hard, So I won’t talk about this point.

Second, Let’s talk about the Columbarium part, Columbarium we will also talk about a bit, Let’s talk about, Now percent, I think ninety-five percent after incineration, Should all be placed in Columbariums, Then Columbarium is like this, There are Buddhist temples, Or Columbariums of Taoist religious environments, There are some private, Fu Yan Jin Bao Shan, Or something like that, Columbariums made by Bei Hai Fu, Private ones exist, Besides in all counties and cities in Taiwan, There are public Columbariums of government agencies, Some public places also have, Ninety-five percent are all placed in Columbariums, Since ninety-five percent, It has no issue of good or bad, It has to be placed.

You say placed in cemetery is good, Placed in Columbarium is good, Very hard to say, Because it is just, Because I always emphasize, Just back to the deceased, Earlier we talked about, How is the condition of the deceased, First, if the condition of the deceased himself, Just properly supervise (Chao Du), Even in forty-nine days, How you are after incineration, Afterwards if you can in forty-nine days, Help your parents or your relatives, Transform to a Better place, It at least didn’t become a ghost, Near the tablet at home, Or in your home, Living together with you, Everyone I think sixty percent, Are living together at home, Really? How do you know, Because this is just how it is, Just whether you can see or not, Or half, Half means, Just at the place of its remains, Just at that Columbarium, Or at its cemetery, Its main soul is there.

Once it is at the Columbarium, Or cemetery, If it basically becomes a ghost, I just said everyone, Ninety-nine percent are ghosts, Not lying to you, So take good care of them, You need to continue to supervise and dedicate merits for them later, Let it transform quickly, That is to say, if in forty-nine days, Really do it well, They although not saying not ghosts, But they will go to a Better place, It is also not saying ascending to heaven or reincarnating.

I feel that in this nearly thousand years, I feel with the changes in human culture, So now there will be some, So-called called third, What do I describe, Saying now there are some special places, They although are ghosts, spirits, But they are not in the human world entangled with us, It is still being by some saints, Or Buddhist sayings, Or Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, You can also say angels.

They will be in some intermediate zones, That is to say, although they didn’t ascend to heaven, But before ascending to heaven, Like Training Center or similar concentrated Cultivation Academy, That is to say, they going to that place is also not bad also good.

So at least not in the human world, Messing around with us here, Ignorant messing around like this, Don’t know just messing around like this, So now there are many Intermediate Stations.

So everyone don’t worry, Ninety-nine percent are ghosts, I mean that state exists, But among that ninety-nine percent, I think now some with good roots and good karma, Even he himself might, Not have very good religious condition, Maybe children are very involved, So now there are some, I think didn’t exist a thousand years ago, But I think in these few hundred years, I here have some special spaces, That is special Twilight Zone, Those places have some, Concentrated similar like academies, Just like before you go abroad, You want to go to every center cram school similar to this, Now this has become a lot, Become a lot, So those places are all relatively good also not bad, I think all not bad, Just say there sometimes, That is can’t stand it, Still run back or what, Or that still needs a little perseverance, But at least it is us children, Also can help parents, Persuade them not to have attachment in the human world, Then go to that kind of, Place that can transform, That place is at least a guaranteed class.

And parents, If in the past had some, Good roots of Religious Belief, Angels now all have some intermediate transfer points, Everyone what I am saying now, These things are responsibly said, Not talking nonsense.

Collective Housing Columbariums Need to Pick a Place

Okay so talking about the Columbarium part, It will become, I think more than half are at home, More than half are just at the Columbarium, Or cemetery there, Then it is a bit troublesome, Cemetery or Columbarium, I think troublesome, Probably but this is a very normal condition, It is just like, That place becomes collective housing, Means parents in the form of ghosts, Just live there in the Columbarium.

There will, Naturally form management, Just that sometimes it becomes very annoying, That is sometimes I, I have visited before, For example, friend’s elder, Then arriving at that place, Discover this elder, Why in this place, Assigned to doing some labor exercise, That is how I describe that condition, Just very like Hong Kong’s public housing, Densely packed full of people living similar, Then when you say you are not having nothing to do, That is, you will be by that organization, That is apartment management regulations, You will finally do some division of labor.

But that place sometimes is like this, If the environment is not bad, That place is still relatively reasonable, But some environments have less management, Especially some, Public cemeteries in county and city places that are worse, Simply no management, No management whatsoever, Simply no cultivation either, It just places you, I think that place, Will become a savage stronghold, Inside is a mess, Like gangs managing, Just bullying the weak, You might your family, Your dad mom, Just become their servants, Help them back massage, Help them transport.

Everyone I am saying these words now, Are all responsibly said, I emphasize again, So it’s not saying placing in Columbarium is bad, Or placing in cemetery is bad, Everyone needs to pick a place.

So first I still emphasize, If in Buddhist temple or Taoist temple Taoist abbey places with Religious Belief, Still prioritize this, Then practically do you have such connections, Can you find it.

Of course, inside Buddhist temples is like this, Not all Buddhist temples are one hundred percent good, Inside Buddhist temples mainly now still, Everyone I have a standard, Inside Buddhist temples now, Still doing morning and evening chanting, With living masters doing morning and evening chanting, Is relatively ok.

If his Buddhist temple, Is just a relatively deserted Buddhist temple, Everyone now all over Taiwan, From south to north to east all have, Some Buddhist temples, He previously might have had some incense not bad, But now some Buddhist temples, They also don’t want to be in the countryside, Countryside also doesn’t have much, Any believers pilgrims, So these Buddhist temples instead also become quite scary, Nothing living, Maybe just a duty nun or a monk occasionally coming over, They usually also keep doors closed.

So for Buddhist temples like this, He just made it into, Also all Columbariums, That is to say he actually, Simply no people, Not doing morning and evening chanting.

Inside Buddhist temples, Mainly someone doing morning and evening chanting, Everyone usually Buddhist temples like this, Our parents there, Even if they are now ghosts, They also will automatically have a rhythm, Will have automatic management, So they will also follow to do morning and evening chanting, So they are not bad.

But if just Buddhist temple, But already not doing just deserted semi-deserted Buddhist temples, Everyone there might just be better than those public cemeteries, I say public agency county and city those public cemetery Columbariums a little bit better, So Buddhist temples are like this, With morning and evening chanting someone still seriously cultivating Buddhist temples, Is first priority.

These Buddhist temples without cultivation, Maybe some residual, Residual closeness secondary or say with private now like Bei Hai Fu doing what these Lung Yen (an enterprise), They now are like this because they comparatively do some will invite some masters or invite people to do some boundaries, Care more about the geographical environment there, Then occasionally still will play for a while, Then occasionally they will also play, Some Buddha names or what ghosts or set memorial services, Just relatively VIP private Columbariums, I think are also passable, VIP private Columbariums.

But local county and city those places, Although not saying bad, Not saying bad, Just saying no way, Just your final parents just being there bullied by the strong, Others relatively labor camp, Relatively like what ghost, Then grabbed to help them massage back, Or help them do hard labor, That also no way, Because that is, The way of survival after that world.

This is not what we want to talk in detail today, I am just describing to everyone, I speak what I speak tonight, Every sentence is responsible to the end everyone, Please everyone reference.

99% of people cannot have Sea Burial, only those whose profession is the sea are suitable

Let’s talk about Sea Burial and Tree Burial, Today mainly key points to talk about Eco-friendly Burial, Sea Burial I say, Why 99.99% absolutely cannot, Even if your family says they want Sea Burial also cannot, Because the ocean is a very special three-dimensional multi-layered space, After we burn parents or relatives into ashes, Maybe their hearts are very romantic, I want to scatter in the ocean is enough, Unrestrained, Like the wind going where or something like that, They might think like this during life.

Everyone, Elders like this, Friends like this, These romances of theirs, Are based on their ignorance, They don’t know the ocean, Is what kind of state, They don’t know the ocean in death, After death the ocean of the world of death is such a complicated three-dimensional and magical place, So they I just like the wind.

The ocean Sea Burial the only ones who can accept, The only people who can implement Sea Burial, Conditions are very, very few, Only those whose profession was the sea during life, Only those whose main profession was the ocean during life, Or that he later just what, Sailing what sailboat grand tour of the world or something, Just conquering the ocean, What ghosts these things, Just like climbing mountains mountaineering, Recently again someone passed away in the mountains or something like that, He uses this thing as his life practice, Yearning for exploration dedication goal main profession, Even the ocean gives him food, gives him clothes, gives him fish, gives him life, If a person whose profession is the ocean he finally decides, He wants to take the ocean as his post it is okay, Only such people can.

If you living on land, You don’t even know how to swim, Absolutely cannot let him, The complexity and three-dimensionality of the ocean after death, To regarding the ocean, The world the ocean shows to the deceased is unimaginable, There is solemnity in the ocean, But there are very deep tribes, Simply and directly speaking in the ocean, There is a very, very high proportion, He just for future very, very long lifetimes, just circulate in the ocean always being fish, entering the reincarnation in the ocean becoming small fish being eaten, just being eaten back and forth always entangled in this inside coming out, very hard.

The ocean is very deep, The energy of this world of the ocean, Is much more complicated than the sky than the void, Even much more complicated than our land, That is to say on the same Earth, Our land occupies the entire proportion, Only this little bit less than 30%.

The ocean is big, That is, the ocean as a deep world, Once you go to the ocean, You have to know human evolution, Or the evolution of this Earth, Everyone is as much as possible leaving the ocean to the land, I count not saying land is better, But saying ocean land sky, It now is different, Count not saying it is a realm.

Just you staying away from the ocean staying away from the sea has a reason, So if you are not capable, You are not a special person with the ocean as a profession, Your life energy, Life structure, Like diving those, For example, you are wandering leisurely in the ocean, The ocean to you, Most importantly ocean to you has no fear fearless, You are familiar with the ocean, To the point you are above the ocean, You don’t exist the ocean, No problem of surrendering, No problem of despair, No problem of depth, For example, for those people with ocean as profession, They instinctively understand the ocean, The ocean’s relationship to them, Also very, very deep, Give him food give him clothes, Make him earn big money.

Unless, So it’s not that there are no such people there are, But if not such people, Your family says romantic I want to fly with the wind I just a handful of earth, I am just ashes, Turn into I just go with the wind go with seagulls, Forget it you, Eight hundred lifetimes later, You have the ability, You can survive in the ocean afterwards, You say it then.

So Sea Burial this matter, Unless ocean as profession, Absolutely do not randomly Sea Burial, After you randomly Sea Burial, Your ocean karma finally can’t come out, Thinking of all ways in the end, After suffering extremely, Will only like everyone that kind of 311 Japan Tsunami event, In Japan there are too too many forums discussing a lot, Among people swallowed by the ocean finally dream interaction etc., Begging asking their family, To give them clothes, Because they are inside the ocean, Deep and cold and dark, Once they still have spiritual consciousness still have residual.

So Sea Burial absolutely do not easily, Even if the deceased he previously romantically expressed, But his romance is based on his ignorance, So family cannot follow do you understand.

For those open toward life and death, can consider Tree Burial

Next talk about Tree Burial, Tree Burial is like this, I think because especially Master Sheng Yen, In Dharma Drum Mountain, His so-called Tree Burial plant burial time, Arose a wave of discussion, Tree Burial actually is not a new thing, Of course, since ancient times there was.

Ancient Fu En Zhao Bao, In India time, After cremation some Ganges sand, Ganges water is the best blessing, But many people were not beside the Ganges, So they scattered under the tree, This is all perfectly justified, So he could also just arbitrarily, Go with nature.

What I want to say is that, The part to speak next, Everything is based on just mentioned, The overall assessment of the deceased, Deceased passing away if he is just very dashing, For example, your old dad is already very dashing, You know during passing away, Before passing away, he let go of many things, Everyone I think Tree Burial, Basically Tree Burial, If it is those who truly before passing away, Many things have been explained, Their mentality is very calm, Very relaxed, Regarding life and death, Don’t say regarding reincarnation, Many aspects are real, Everyone elders who really let go, Can consider Tree Burial, No influence on them.

Because they have a high chance, Already truly let go, That is to say Tree Burial is suitable, For this world, For relatives for his life, Basically regardless of whether he has how much transcended wisdom, His merit karma, His virtue, Whether can ascend to heaven go to Land of Ultimate Bliss go to heaven, Regardless, But you know his personality various aspects speaking, He really let go, Can.

But if not very let go, Just like Sea Burial before, If he doesn’t need ocean as profession person, He just says he also can’t figure out Tree Burial, He says maybe he still has attachment to family, He wants to see son and grandson, Just he can’t, Because passing away, Body sick, Etc. these things, So he says, But thinking because save money eco-friendly, Just tell you want Tree Burial, But you know he towards this world, Towards relatives still has many attachments, Person like this, Still want especially care about relatives, You want to let him you just want to do Tree Burial for him, Although not saying cannot not good, Because he will regret, He still has great attachment to the world.

Suitable Environment for Tree Burial

Recommend Tree Burial at Dharma Drum Mountain, Koyasan (Mt. Koya), other environments need further observation

Okay, I haven’t started to talk about the environment of Tree Burial, Everyone needs to assess Tree Burial where can Tree Burial, Or later will describe my personal experience, Actually, I have seriously inspected, Especially because Japan has practiced Tree Burial for years, I have inspected Japan, Many Tree Burial places, Taiwan several Tree Burial what places I always looked, So I have some induction of my experience, I am responsible, Everyone can reference later, How do you assess that Tree Burial environment.

Because now there are many emerging Tree Burial areas, Including various counties and cities because acting as Eco-friendly Burial, Heard everyone is popular Eco-friendly Burial also planned in their cemetery areas, Making a Tree Burial area, This matter and then all learning, Learning people’s surface layer, So I think everyone needs to carefully assess the place of Tree Burial, Not all Tree Burial places are okay, I personally think some Tree Burial places, Or at least in my understanding, I think more than half are unqualified, Are poor, Will have influence on the deceased, Not positive influence, Although not necessarily negative, But not positive influence.

What is called not positive influence, Influence means for the deceased still will create the fact of wandering spirit, The deceased is still wandering there, And a bit troublesome.

Okay so I return to say, Everyone Tree Burial has a prerequisite, That is, must be the person passing away, Is truly before he passed away, Or during passing away etc. he is already very free and easy, Towards this world especially towards relatives already very free and easy, I think for such people doing Tree Burial might be relatively suitable, Therefore if not such doing Tree Burial, Then you have to help him consider.

What I want to say next, Several important Tree Burial environmental conditions, Is like this, Tree Burial I first speak of a few models, I think I have seen Tree Burial only two models, No more.

First the 1st model, In our Taiwan actually is Dharma Drum Mountain’s Tree Burial area, Because Dharma Drum Mountain’s Tree Burial area, Most importantly is, Because Master Sheng Yen, His own remains were scattered there, So mainly this place, Simply speaking bluntly, Is the saint’s last wish, Saint’s consciousness setting.

I went to Dharma Drum Mountain’s Tree Burial area, Forgive me for saying this, I just looked out, I also don’t want to say any mysterious words, I looked out at Dharma Drum Mountain’s Tree Burial area, From my Dharma eye looked, It is faintly slightly glittering with golden light, I haven’t seen similar like this elsewhere.

That is to say not just because Master Sheng Yen, His own last wish, His remains are there, So being able to be with Master Sheng Yen, This karma is really good, I am not just saying, There is a powerful person there, Because inside here equals to say this area has a special setting, From my perspective in Dharma Drum Mountain’s Tree Burial area, If really want Tree Burial, Please everyone strive to can act that place as priority, Especially your parents, If Buddhist.

What I want to express is that place, From my Dharma eye seeing faint slight golden light, Although not universal, Some places relatively thick, Some places relatively lighter, But I think in that place, He although not saying, What guarantee to go to Land of Ultimate Bliss, But I think he because based on with Master Sheng Yen, With Master Sheng Yen towards that place, He also wanted to make a demonstration, Regarding Spiritual Environmental Protection to Life and Death Environmental Protection, So his last wish is very sacred, So there are some sacred connections there, Simply speaking there are sacred connections and traction there.

I have to speak very concretely, Is I think if Tree Burial at Dharma Drum Mountain, Tree Burial area there, Actually your parents Buddhist, He doesn’t have deep practice, I all think he has a good chance, To be able to go to what I call that third space, The fourth the Nth space that cultivation concentration area, He is also not in the human world, Although he hasn’t ascended to heaven hasn’t reached Land of Ultimate Bliss, There will be a place where can follow cultivation, So I always feel there is not bad, I have full research on that place, This is the first I think model area, I haven’t seen in Taiwan, Other places have similar places, But I recently also haven’t looked again, Maybe there are some new ones.

The second place I think no other, You also don’t have the ability is Koyasan, I think Koyasan’s Okunoin, Those places are the most famous in all Japan, Like all Japan also have the most famous most famous historical figures, And rich people can only have a piece of land under Koyasan.

Very simply just because Koyasan there, All are every root beside his Tree Burial are cemeteries, All still cemeteries still graves, He also not saying ashes scattered there, But his sacred trees there are all several thousand years tens of thousands of years, All have several thousand years huge Koyasan, That is to say human life and death, Comparing with these trees, I think those trees are all gods, Those trees gazing including all Shogunate these generals’ life and death wars, In their history of several thousand years humans are all ants, Those real trees, Will talk about trees later, Has a big relationship with Tree Burial talked about later, Everyone needs to listen on, That is to say place like this is, That place’s sanctity, Is the sanctity of nature’s forest farm itself, Plus the sanctity of religion itself, Because Kobo Daishi is also there.

So you can hear me first say, Environment of nature, Is not the first priority, You also have a religious crowd gathering proximity, Of course is very good, I give an example, For example in Xizhi, Xizhi’s that Cihang Bodhisattva, Cihang Bodhisattva is a Flesh Body Bodhisattva, Just Master Cihang after he passed away (Parinirvana), He is the Bodhisattva with indestructible flesh body golden body there, Then his place originally can place spirit bones? Previously could, Now should be full I guess, You of course being able to be with saints, Of course very good, This is beyond doubt, Just saying Taiwan how many saints do you have, Not too many, I refer to saints in cultivation, Not saints with high popularity.

I say again everyone, Not religious figures with high popularity, Is wanting true saints with cultivation liberation, These cultivation liberation ones, After he himself passed away, He himself opened a channel, So usually in their last wishes, You just close to their connection, Are all very good blessings, But very few very few not many, You say Buddhist temple, Buddhist temple is just that monastery, Without saint’s last wish or a setting, There not necessarily have, But if someone doing morning and evening chanting is still okay, No morning and evening chanting is very poor.

Okay, Pull back I am now talking about Tree Burial, So I have only seen two model areas, That is nature environment, That nature environment itself is, Several thousand years several thousand years sacred trees, That human life and death to him, And these trees growing for several thousand years, These trees sucking, For example actually your ashes, It simply doesn’t need your ashes, Your ashes to him might even be heavy metal pollution he doesn’t want, Because he himself is very powerful.

Then what kind of Tree Burial area is not good, Or why say Taiwan, More than half Tree Burial areas don’t work, Based on my standard don’t work.

First is like this, Tree Burial is like this, Everyone I speak half, Need to mention again and again, Everything is important based on the deceased himself, If your deceased passed away after cremation, If he still has great attachment to this world, After you cremate, His soul consciousness or his consciousness, Especially after 49 days, Because you that 49 days, So after 49 days, He will transform become a ghost, 99% all become ghosts, Because he still has connection with this world, That is to say he originally before 49 days, Is a special energy combination body, Buddhism calls Bardo (Intermediate State), But that Bardo, From the first 7 days is very precise, High energy condition, Every 7 days decaying, Decaying means, He starts to transform, In 7 days 21 days, Transform to become coarser.

General condition, He just from the first 7 days, Every 7 days constantly transforming, After 49 days transform into ghost particles, We use human particles, We humans are cells, But to ghosts, Just transform into that energy particle, Just become ghost particles, After 49 days, 99% are, Just you simply good roots merit virtue, You also didn’t do any good deeds, You say I didn’t do bad deeds, Yes, But you simply didn’t do any good deeds, And you kill lives every day eat so much meat, Why are you not being a ghost, Isn’t it?

Okay, I am not talking about this what, Meat eating or not issue, So you from the beginning I want to say, Thus finally you become bones after 49 days, Of course, You doing Tree Burial this matter, Is often maybe within 49 days you want Tree Burial, So I just said 99% of people, You at the moment of doing Tree Burial, I am not saying, 99% of our family members, His spiritual passing consciousness, In the transformation process, Everyone in the transformation process, All still following his ashes, Proceeding or moving, Of course also possibly part in the tablet, Part in his remains, So for example you in 7 days 14 days just Tree Burial him, Actually frankly speaking, He hasn’t finished transforming, He hasn’t finished transforming, So if you are not at a sacred place, You doing Tree Burial, Frankly speaking will be a bit hasty, But ordinary people also don’t have ability to say, I first place in Columbarium or something like that, So that is to say, Tree Burial this matter is like this, Say again everything is based on the deceased his overall condition after passing away.

Trees for Tree Burial must be local trees themselves

Then I want to say Tree Burial areas have several troublesome places, First regarding vast majority of Tree Burial, Now conditions are getting stricter and stricter, Previous part some, For example ten twenty years ago, At that time some Tree Burial areas, They relatively respected, For example they sometimes some trees, These trees are based on local, That is, they changed some of this geographical environment, That is to say the tree itself is local, It is just regarding there geographical environment did some renovation.

Okay everyone listen well listen carefully listen carefully, Trees are grown locally, That is trees just grow there, They just regarding its geographical environment, So you can scatter around the vicinity of that tree.

But the problem is the evolution of these years, Current Tree Burial places became park-like, First it is first doing large land leveling, Leveling finished then plant some baffling saplings, And all are growing saplings, Saying now you plant now, Then have ten years, thirty years later, Future later it grows into big tree, Everyone nourishes with it, I just feel makes me feel baffling.

Comparing with Koyasan thousand year big trees, You transplant these small trees now, These small trees are all kittens, They transplanted over, Then still here propped like this, Then they are still adapting, These trees if have spirits, Everyone is still scared, Many still can’t survive, They desperately suck, Still sucking surrounding environment, So the ashes you scatter beside, Ashes and the like, That is to say these trees are all sucking, This tree in order to survive, Is seriously sucking nutrients in your relative’s ashes, Is entangling your relative, I mean these small trees, So I regarding currently developing this Tree Burial park, I all feel very baffling.

First is you are not local itself original geographical environment combining with nature, Is making into current park, Is human this kind of artificiality, Then feel that grotesque, Just you just plant some saplings, Then still bare hot to death, You here have a small park, You first how to walk to, Then this place you can place here, Then soil put inside, Then this is the first tree, I have a lot of opinions on trees.

Like Dharma Drum Mountain there, Originally was based on local part doing some adjustments, Based on local original then doing some adjustments this is right, Just your Tree Burial itself, You want local trees, You can’t you know just humans forcedly making, This is the first point.

Second regarding Tree Burial this matter, There are many ashes handling everyone, Japan is like this, Japan’s some Tree Burial Eco-friendly Burial, It is not big ash urn, It is concentrated in relatively small, So it is burying you digging in a place just your small ash urn, Relatively obvious ash urn is directly planted inside placed under this, Because they because Japan regarding Buddhism’s condition, Still relatively has research, So one kind is, It is ash urn just implanted in that ash urn, Dig deep put in, So a Tree Burial, Or in that area can place several places, That is to say it is similar to Earth Burial, Just small Tree Burial exclusive ash urn, I think this is the best frankly speaking.

Tree Burial is not scattering ashes, it is placing in ash urn and placing under the tree

Because I just said, This kind of Tree Burial way, It is not scattering ashes out, Then you what mix inside, It is still placing you inside the ash urn, Just I just said, Because our relatives after passing away, Because he hasn’t entirely finished 49 days transformation you are proceeding, Maybe 7 days 14 days you are proceeding Tree Burial.

This matter, Of course I finally everyone, I will myself, Have a Total Solution, My considered SOP, I Final I will say at the end, But I am describing, So now becomes you have ashes, Then now scatter in that place, I just feel so baffling, Regarding scattering scattered ashes part, I think now besides Dharma Drum Mountain, Other places I feel a bit terrible.

Local trees to your parents are just company, not sucking your parents’ energy

First your tree is sucking, These trees are all foreign trees, Small trees they are all afraid of not surviving, You are not local trees, Local trees, Its roots deeply planted in usage environment, It absorbs the earth energy of the land, These trees it doesn’t want to suck you, Deceased your relative’s own spiritual passing energy it doesn’t need, They might just be accompanying, Compared to now you planting some saplings, If your ashes directly scatter there, It just sucks your nutrients, Sucks your existence, Producing that competition.

So I actually have some, I actually have some Tree Burial areas, I just feel very great, Strange why these trees, Why I just saw some deceased, Why are these deceased stuck on the trees, So I looked very heartbroken, Just deceased stuck on the trees, Deceased’s head stuck in tree roots, You can’t see I can see, I just feel just how can it be like this.

So I regarding now Taiwan, These only learned surface didn’t figure out clearly, So the first part, Return to talk, Just now Japan is, It is a small ash urn concentrated storage, But after it stored for a while, Then later will continue, Like put for a few years, Then you enshrine for a few years, Maybe five years ten years later, It will pull you up, After pulling up finally will have inside deeper place, Like have old trees, They finally then scatter your stored five years ten years old tree ashes at the old tree there, Then here emptied place again give to other people.

Then they also will have a small house, Also will have a, Now actually everyone is also, Will have a concentrated room, Then there still will have tablets, Will have record books, Many now use computers, That is to say you used to be where, That is to say you can still there, Service that place, Room have doing service or sacrifice there, But you come to this place to pay respect, This is no problem, But in here need to have some settings.

It’s just that I just mentioned Taiwan, Now many just mean, Let you scatter there, Then what ashes then they will turn what etc., Then what you some anyway every one is different, Sometimes I now, Will give you a plaque, Has your name, But few years later this plaque is gone, Then we move into the room, Anyway now there are many blindly messing around randomly messing around.

First I think is the problem of trees, Second the part I want to talk about is what, Everyone I am now starting to talk about, Is when you involve related to land, You are not placed in Columbarium, Artificial environment, Everyone you are not placed in Columbarium, Artificial environment, You re-relate to the earth, Actually frankly speaking, It relates to us in past thousands of years, Choosing cemetery, So-called Feng Shui, Still related, Because you connect with the land, Land itself has earth energy, Inside this land, Everyone, Has Earth Water Fire Wind, Has Metal Wood Water Fire Earth, We don’t want to speak complicatedly, I myself don’t have precise research on these, But I am just understanding like this, I am now describing, That is to say, Tree Burial area here, First environment, Since it is the part of Tree Burial area, Tree, I just first talk about first related to Wood, It transplanted these trees what saplings etc., Just imply very baffling.

Tree Burial is to hide from the sun, not to be exposed under the sun

Everyone it is like this, Including in Agama Sutra, Buddhism original scriptures inside all have descriptions, In Buddhist scriptures, Everyone not Mahayana scriptures, Original Buddhist scriptures inside similarly just have descriptions, In India part all need those big trees, Many ghosts and spirits etc. all inhabit symbiotically with trees or inhabit under the trees, Because they want to hide from the sun, When you now take family’s spirit bones, If especially scattered on the ground, You there tree small kitten, you two small trees, Do you want your relative to be exposed there, You say no, They are not exposed, Tell everyone, Just exposing, Because they haven’t finished transforming, And they 99% are ghosts, Ghosts very hard to withstand the sun.

Tree Burial area at least transplanted ones need to be big trees

So many in Tree Burial, I went to the scene to see, Many Tree Burial there, All in sun exposure this matter, I all think have ability you want to provide people Tree Burial area, You just want to plan the park well first, Trees planted well, You want trees at least grow five years ten years, Or what you transplant is to be big trees, Transplanted all big trees all stable, Its tree roots all already in environment, This whole earth energy environment is very good, You want to let these remains spirit bones’ spiritual passing ones can have habitation.

Instead of small trees basking in the sun like this, Any Tree Burial area, Now just made into park shape, Some what walking what like small park planting Korean grass, Then trees tiny still beside cutting, Everyone this absolutely all cannot, Absolutely absolutely cannot, You harm your relatives in that place, Exposed under the sun nowhere to hide, Because now it is like this, Completely no understanding, The essence of Tree Burial this matter, I am very furious, I here specially saw that is, That relative just like this, His person just stuck in that tree, Connected with the tree, You also no way, I am very sad, But no way, I also can’t do anything.

Tree Burial is related to Land

First related to trees, So second related to Land, Land environment, Of course your geographical Feng Shui, Etc. and so on, You this Tree Burial area is very fitting, Then you facing, Facing sun not facing sun, Etc. doing what and what not, Of course this aspect, I this I am not professional, What what acupoints I don’t know, This thing actually still related.

Unless very dashing before death and at moment of death, otherwise ashes absolutely do not scatter on ground, do not sprinkle water

But first I want to talk about Water, Draining water this matter, Why I just described, In Japan there Tree Burial area, At first first put you in still a mini even a high polymer density bag, Like plastic bag like this first put you under the tree, Or store you inside, Then he passes how many years, He will slowly that his plastic bag will decompose, Then be absorbed again, People’s concept, Absolutely not ashes scattered on the ground, People are not like this.

Because first, It is not all deceased can stand it, Second is regarding deceased, Of course I say again, I said 800 times, Just deceased own condition is different, Deceased if before death and at moment of death very dashing, Then totally no problem, Regarding what ashes has no relation to him, This all he has no problem, But problem 99% still represent, He just instinctively together with his ashes.

So I can’t stand the most, Just he what ashes scatter in that place, Then finally say, He still lets you sprinkle some water oh my god, Lets you sprinkle some water, Let your ashes can what, Be absorbed by vegetation, I really about to faint, Especially doing this matter within 49 days, I really about to faint, Really regarding death and world after death, And deceased completely don’t know, Will then mess around blindly, He just says he equals to count as ashes, He just ashes like, Scatter like this go just become tree’s nutrient, Just want to return to the great earth, Then nourish these trees, Your mom, You are ashes, Problem is you these, Being human simply can’t see, Beside this ashes, Still alive there, Just you can’t see, You that water to them some people, Is very unbearable, Just water scattered on ashes, If he has attachment, Everyone, Because some people just naturally have attachment, Just like not everyone is like me, Just a wound on the foot will get cellulitis, Everyone is different.

But some current Tree Burial areas, Already saying Tree Burial eco-friendly, Just take your ashes think just like ash nutrient, Just Nothing, Nothing else, Then with so-called spirit body, With etc. has no imagination, Because they don’t understand, Then regarding this kind, Still call you what sprinkle water, This oh my god you absolutely don’t do, You really killed the relative, These relatives like drowning, They some are like suffocating died of pain.

So this is the water within, So too much now this kind, Can’t figure out the situation mess around one side, Eco-friendly then mess mess mess, You personally then nourish then tree grows very well, Later these trees you just want to say like this, This tree is your relative grew up there, What ghost is this.

Land Heavy Metal Mineral Influence

Tree Earth, First talk about Wood, Just talked Land, Water, Okay, Fire I just talked sun exposure this matter, Besides of course still have Metal, Of course Metal this matter is like this, Metal actually some aspect regarding minerals, Metal minerals some specific places, It just involves with this geographical environment, For example in geographical environment, Everyone if it has heavy metal pollution.

Again think, Again not chemical place, What heavy metal, I tell you everyone, Some now I heard, But I detail can’t say, They just that kind, So-called eco-friendly reason for, Doing what Tree Burial area, Because they what land, Based on the condition of the land there, That land already has what pollution, What previously what garbage mountain cleared then they cover a batch of soil, Then plant then after organizing, That really cannot, Then here has some, You know those heavy metals, Maybe same to humans.

But what I want to say, Mainly is regarding, Spirit body’s direct indirect influence, Because metallic things, It is really very subtle.

For example, I have to say, For example actually as spirit body itself, Spirit body itself regarding some metallic, Just metal regarding us although like invisible like air, But metal this density and function, One is metal itself, All have specific metal, Own energy field or magnetic field metal.

Second metal composition, Also subtle, Just saying metal maybe it finally, All have some crystal lattices, Those atomic these crystal lattices etc., For example you graphene regarding some crystal lattices, How should I say, That is to say some with spirit body, Might produce some interaction, Then some will hurt, Regarding spirit body will produce pain, So in the West, It sometimes regarding metallic or iron powder, Exorcism they will use iron powder, They think iron powder, Will regarding spirit body produced collision energy, Will have some burning to spirit body, So this matter of course is different, This is not a saying, These are all experience values.

So inside land if have some special metals, Just like actually also have some treasure lands, Just have some I know this I have been to, That is I very mysterious, Just I went to some temples there, I at that place felt, Myself was a bit dizzy dizzy, But I felt that place so special, Later then discovered that, Originally this temple the environment it is situated its whole underground there exactly is crystal mine, Just underneath just happen this mountain is crystal, I am saying real not joking, Is underneath is crystal mine, I have personally experienced.

That is to say they there, Columbarium or they etc., Just strange they there, Invisible sentient beings very different, Just because it is situated in crystal blessed environment, This is I hold have personally experienced, That is to say geographical environment, Inside special condition, Its metal or whatnot, At least negative is if is heavy metal pollution, That land transformed into Tree Burial area is absolutely cannot, Have pollution, Bad things regarding spirit body or regarding those ashes, Basically won’t be good, This is why Tree Burial environment, Just it needs to be very particular, Very not easy.

Spiritual Passing Transformation Needs 7749 Days

And because now Tree Burial time, Just because is in, Passed away finish seven days, Ten days already lasted very long, Ten days later then cremate, After cremation then Tree Burial, But clearly we just said, In Buddhism, Fact is also so, Not only Buddhism, In many experiences inspections just need 49 days, This spiritual passing can completely transform, But you might 14 days just take his ashes, Especially I just said, You go to that half-assed Tree Burial area, Then scattered it, Then still sprinkled water, Then made into nutrient, You really killed the dead, And especially bare, Really can’t stand it.

Sun is a training for humans or spirit bones

You Tree Burial have to raise the trees, There need to have center of gravity, Result this land development, Not a concept area Tree Burial area, Then all finally, You just feel only look out trees, Spirit bones scattered in that place existence all baking in sun, How can be comfortable, People baking in sun not comfortable, Why do you think, Your past relative’s ashes baking in sun there he will be not comfortable (should be comfortable? - sarcastic context, means uncomf), Sun regarding humans all regarding life, Like I possess ability it all is training, Regarding nature those trees all are training, Baking in sun training, It can grow well.

Relatives all passed away, And he just passed away, You want to bake in sun training there, Why don’t you yourself go to gym, You have guts go to gym go roast in UV cabin, You roast 7 days 7 nights you see if you can stand it, Then why your relative can, There just Tree Burial area without big tree shelter.

Sea Burial, Tree Burial both need their suitable standards

So this sentence tells me, I today am all talking about, Sea Burial, Tree Burial’s shortcomings, I just tell everyone, You need to have judgment standard, You don’t figure not clear, So I just let your relative, Himself all is suffering, This really very annoying right, But you also have no way, But now all randomly mess around, Everyone copy here copy there, More and more copy, Then more superficial, All made a bit like park.

And I just can’t stand just say, We are saying, We might in future, We just place in this area, Then he tells you signs contract says, This place we will turn soil, Then just mix together with, Then it just connects with nature, Then it is returning to the earth, He is just for saving money, He just more profit, You tell me nonsense.

Eco-friendly Burial’s focus is not environmental protection, not treating your relative as nutrient waste

I tell you again, Japan part’s way, People’s truly responsible way, First store there store for few years, Few years later go pick up handle, To specific area place there, People truly responsible, With religious experience, Have according to Buddhist scriptures, It is not Eco-friendly Burial’s focus, Not environmental protection, Treating your person as nutrient waste, Ignoring your deceased spirit this matter’s, Your soul consciousness your spiritual passing.

Current Eco-friendly Burial, Why say, It is just a concept, But Eco-friendly Burial how many people research, Regarding deceased’s true condition seriously research, All blindly doing, So I hate these, Now in the name of environmental protection, Randomly messing around randomly developing these funeral things, I really can’t stand it, I really very heartbroken, I just looked how can be like this, Just I just said, God that elder like this, Stuck in tree inside like this, Everyone how I describe to you stuck, Because he just, He just originally absorbed by tree, He just couldn’t move.

Eco-friendly Burial is letting him free settle well in this area, plants are his reliance, not being kidnapped by plants

Clearly in Eco-friendly Burial environment, You want to let him free in this area, Truly powerful Eco-friendly Burial place, Is his place, Is letting them here, First have respective stable settled well point.

Settled well point, Just rely on his symbiotic this plant, This plant is his reliance, Not being kidnapped by it, Plant has no mutuality, Is everyone mutual co-prosperity is, From concrete not only nutrient, Is concrete existence biological survival, Or this Earth relying on nature existence.

That is to say, Every tree finally becomes different several deceased spirits spiritual passing everyone’s reliance, Just everyone like Fairy Tale everyone like little elves surrounding this tree, This is their dwelling place, They can blow wind on the tree, They can sit under the tree enjoy cool, They can in here free environment, Your so-called Eco-friendly Burial, Is letting our relatives, In natural environment, Even if they became ghosts, They now are another world’s subject, They are free.

Of course you as long as are spiritual passing, You pass away 49 days later, You will become a new state, They all called earth bound, You will have connection with land, Of course they impossible from Yangmingshan again run back to Linkou, Impossible easily, Of course we can go over look, But at least in survival environment is space free, And in here, Responsible place, For example beside, Have a reception area, Family’s rest area, You can inside do memorial service etc.

Actually in here needs to create, Needs to have someone have ability or mana, Create a consciousness hyperlink, Just inside here is they under the tree very happy, But when relatives come, You cannot do memorial service ritual outside, Because everyone wants to offer to you, Then send fruits to you etc. also very good.

So you don’t create connection, They can free can come to, So-called inside this room, Enjoy or accompany family be together with family, Inside here needs to have some settings and traction, Inside here needs to find energy source, To create his action movement space, Also cannot they run around randomly, They also can’t run around randomly.

So in my imagination, Tree Burial area just every tree, Regardless big small very stable, These are these deceased spirits are around this tree very free with heaven earth nature, That is to say why they, Can quickly liberate, They can in heaven earth nature, Feel four seasons’ change, To them no harm, Hide from sun, Can watch stars, Then sun moon stars, Then live very well, Then they also some kind of reliance, With nature, For example take nature as road, Nature’s energy as food.

With they although not immortals, But they slowly, They are ghosts spirits ghosts, But slowly also learn immortals slowly live, Slowly slowly slowly transform, So this is the meaning of Eco-friendly Burial.

So here all conditions, Want to let them how can inhabit under tree on tree, Free in designated area, When relatives come, Still can see family, Family offer to him they still can enjoy, Eat human’s fruit what does it matter, Also very kind their intention and love, Look at relatives, Look at little grandson very happy, Then they go back, Naturally again want to be under tree with heaven and earth, Eco-friendly Burial’s meaning is here.

But you that environment, If didn’t create that environment, Result you that sapling, Keep sucking these your relative’s ashes’ nutrient, Suck them stuck inside their tree branches, Then you still sprinkle water on them, Or doing what nonsense, Before mature, Just only wind meal, Just wind meal rain beat, Then sun baked to death nowhere to hide become torture, Is it like this.

So you to find such, Relative part environment, You don’t tell me, Everything depends on mind, You confirm yourself, After you die, You created by mind, We now, We said our deceased, 99% of people simply no ability to liberate, You just in this nature survival environment, 99% just no way, So we this to relatives, We this descendants, We want to work hard, Don’t know, Not 5 years old, Don’t know you how things, Actually just they not comfortable, You also not comfortable, But this thing, You but understood, You just more a heart, More a choice, Seriously properly go, Find more suitable.

Let the deceased be able to settle

You speak then you want to go to Dharma Drum Mountain, Today we mainly talk about Eco-friendly Burial this point, So in here, Of course allow me still finally say a little bit, I think everything, We of course doing things, Greatest all want to let deceased be able to settle, Overall everything is like this.

That is to say now regarding having family pass away, Spent did many of these things, Funeral etc., Actually all related to the living, How to reduce the living’s trouble, Funeral company helped you do many things, We looked seem very comfortable, Not we doing what, Washing body whatever, All not doing ourselves, But many things are truly, Actually being able to do these things, Unless you so trust, I think if relatives, Can accompany again of course is best, But ordinary people of course can’t do it.

Whole from, But now, Vast majority of funeral companies, Accumulated this already, 20 years 30 years nearly 30 years, Taiwan learning Japan’s these, Or funeral experience more and more SOP, Then religious some experience values, Also slowly added in, So basically now randomly messing around won’t be many, Then regarding deceased himself overall care body etc., I think all very polite, You now want to encounter randomly messing your body making your relative among, Very uncomfortable or painful not too many frankly speaking, But there are usually biggest problems relatively troublesome, But details this is not the theme we discuss today.

Can cast divination blocks (Jiaobei) to ask deceased

Deceased potentially still will have some, Every deceased just passed away different, Then can you understand, You want how to understand, Actually I didn’t speak very abstractly, Actually I want to frankly say, Here I want to tell everyone, Actually you can ask the deceased, Ask the deceased this is true.

It is like this everyone don’t feel, But how do I ask, We don’t have Yin-Yang eyes, How to communicate how to dream, You 99% of people don’t have that ability also no talent, But my meaning of ask is, You actually can cast divination blocks (Jiaobei) to ask him, If you want to use divination blocks, Two red ones go buy, Bookstore just sells, Traditional bookstore, Divination blocks that, Small ones have big have small, Or you really can’t, Take two coins also can, Coins relatively troublesome place, Is because coin is metal.

Some elderly people, Just say when you seriously ask him, They just their intention, Through coin’s part way, To embody answer you, Head Head Tail Tail, Or one Head one Tail (Holy Cup), To answer you, Yes or No this matter, Some deceased will relatively fragile, Especially if dementia, My experience is like this, They already dementia, Or various aspects dementia disability like this, Once they just passed away, When they just passed away, They are still in dementia state, You ask them is no way, They have no ability to answer you, Not after they passed away, Their will becomes healthy, When just passed away, I just with him, Why I say, Death process moment of death’s, Physical and mental condition has great relationship, So just he needs a while, Maybe 7 days 14 days later you then can ask.

So the best way, Of course you can go to bookstore buy, Just like inside temple that divination blocks, Because wood that texture light, Then when you ask deceased some, Their intention, Through this karma part’s transformation, This is very subtle, Especially their first 7 days very able to ask, They also can ask them.

Divination blocks can only ask Yes or No, then continue to follow up, cannot ask open-ended questions

Just in here, This seems to be another professional technique, Not technique actually not very hard, Actually problem you need to have a remember, Just first I just, Wood compared to metal a little bit better, You remember, That is to say if you really don’t know, When you want to ask them, Actually can ask questions, But when asking questions need like this, You cannot ask complicated questions, You cannot ask open-ended questions, You can only ask Yes or No.

And you want as much as possible is, Not interrogating them, You want to ask closer to their image, Able to easily move intention, What meaning, For example you now want to ask them, For example, I give a few examples like just passed away, You will ask them say, For example they had some instructions, Want to do some Eco-friendly Burial, Element ask him what, For example mom passed away, You call mom or dad, Want to ask just say, We want to truly ask you, Because when you were alive, You said you wanted Eco-friendly Burial, We want to very clearly ask you, Are you very insisting, Want Eco-friendly Burial please you return me three Holy Cups (Sheng Bei).

That is to say, You cannot ask question say, Dad you want Eco-friendly Burial or we still want Earth Burial, Cannot.

Because people when just passed away, Because he at the same time that Bardo is in, Very not sober very magical confused state, Maybe he at this time, Also wants to go to US to see his grandson, This time maybe if is old veteran, Maybe wants to return to his hometown, Go see his hometown, That is to say they simultaneously first 7 days can go to many places, So he also can listen to you, They could be, They could be as many as they are, So you want to ask them, Cannot ask letting them seem only, You cannot want them only listening to you talking with you, In just passed away first 7 days, They because are in, Also not scattered, They are very clear, Normal condition, But passed away those passing away exception, So when you are asking them, Question needs to based on their attitude’s tendency.

So frankly speaking, Why someone can ask someone can’t ask, Just like someone very able to ask gods, Gods can all answer, They ask you just someone just can’t ask, Because asking is a learning, Asking is a technique, Asking good question, Asking entry point, Needs to be very wise, So want to ask want to ask them one like, Like just said say, Dad or mom you are very insisting, Because you before death said want Eco-friendly Burial, Are you very insisting want Eco-friendly Burial, So key point is not Eco-friendly Burial, Key point is insisting or not, So you can if insisting please you give me Holy Cup, Want 3 times so just throw 3 times, If he not sure, Will be Laughing Cup (Xiao Bei) like this, For example he insists, You then continue ask down, Your previous part had Sea Burial or etc., But I say Sea Burial you don’t ask him, Because he very romantic wants to Sea Burial, You will harm him, You just said Tree Burial, We just consider help you find Tree Burial, You can ask him, If you learn Buddhism, You want one by one patiently, Just a simple question’s tendency ask like this.

And I also actually think, Although frankly speaking, Just passed away first 7 days, He has no day night difference, Just say at night will relatively quiet down, So asking at night, Indeed passed midnight asking is not bad, Even asking during day no difference, But just involves I just said, Everything is, All death is with deceased’s condition, If deceased very sober, Deceased very let go, Deceased still at moment of passing away, Still from unknown, He finally very calm, This of course is chosen person, This is the most powerful, How you communicate with him no problem, You still bask in light, Able to have such relative, Similar like this, Passed away naturally (dying of old age in one’s bed), But generally very hard.

His opinion, you also don’t necessarily listen to all, but you have to look at his tendency

So actually I say you really have some doubts, You can ask questions, You want how to handle, Can ask his opinion, So say his opinion, you also don’t necessarily listen to all, but you have to look at his tendency.

For example we like this, You ask him say you insist or not, If say he also didn’t think clearly, Also not insisting, Then you again continue follow up, Ask say okay, Mom I now look you not so insisting, Is like this then I ask you, Can you allow, Just same question, You want different aspect ask, Then can you allow, Your funeral affairs part, Just we children we help you decide okay, Can we help you decide, Then you again ask, Please us 3 Holy Cups, That is to say you actually want to guide patiently ask like this.

Communication Skills with Deceased

This actually regarding communication with deceased most important skill, Is asking questions, Want 3 Holy Cups, You want to tell him 3 Holy Cups, But for example you one Laughing Cup, You can stop, Not Laughing Cup then no more, You can throw again, That is to say, What meaning, Just you Laughing Cup, Holy Cup, Holy Cup, Laughing Cup, Just means always not certain, You can first stop ask again, So actually communicating with deceased, Because deceased’s condition different, You have to be patient, But if he always can’t think clearly, He will Holy Cup, Laughing Cup.

My experience value is probably, You just probably try within 7 times, I just base on 3 Holy Cups, To the end he thinks clearly, Will consecutively give you 3 Holy Cups, If he always can’t think clearly, He will Holy Cup, Laughing Cup, Laughing Cup, Holy Cup, Just means he didn’t think clearly, Not he says no, He just can’t think clearly, If he no he will all three Laughing Cups give you, Just say no doubt.

So deceased settling, So some is asking his part opinion, This first point, That is to say, This is everyone can assess.

Relative passing away most important is, help him able to smoothly towards positive transformation

Second part is say, Everyone must remember, Reason we do funeral affairs, Want to do this everything, Is what, It has a goal, This goal is say you, I think ordinary people, Maybe children all didn’t think that not you think far, I all think this is not far, This most basic I don’t understand, Because everyone usually didn’t regarding death this matter properly prepare or research, Properly treat this as matter, Seriously go think, Whole matter, Our mom and dad, Our relative passed away, whole matter most important is what, most important is, help him able to smoothly towards positive transformation, Want to base on his transformation as goal.

That is to say you from beginning, Want body funeral affairs, Funeral company whatever etc., You want cremation, This everything isn’t it all, For him able to smoothly go, Ascend to heaven works, Go to heaven works, Go to Land of Ultimate Bliss, Or at least to Bodhisattva manifested transformation city, So-called this, Third this Intermediate Station.

Isn’t all want to base on this as goal, Then your relative wants to think all ways to that place isn’t it, Just like I not already said, 800 times in my live broadcast, I said I everything, I now take care of Mom Wang, Everything is based on future Mom Wang go to Land of Ultimate Bliss as my first goal, So I not want Mom Wang, Just say Mom Wang now is want to take care of her, But Mom Wang want to go to Land of Ultimate Bliss, Just she want to go to Land of Ultimate Bliss, She not going to Land of Ultimate Bliss I am not reconciled, I want to go to Land of Ultimate Bliss, I want to confirm she want to Land of Ultimate Bliss mainly, I want to confirm she want to Land of Ultimate Bliss works, Mom Wang once pass away, From before passing away, Want finally approaching end, To passing away to passing away finish, I definitely want Mom Wang go to Land of Ultimate Bliss, Finished I will then come back do things, Before Mom Wang smoothly to Land of Ultimate Bliss, As long as Mom Wang to finally passed away, I will just focus for Mom Wang go to Land of Ultimate Bliss go all out, I now am going all out, My constantly chanting sutra, Every day chanting sutra all dedicating to Mom Wang.

Not rushing 49 days must become Buddha immediately, everyone’s condition is different

Because this is that is to say, We in taking care of relative’s past, Not doing 800 things, These 800 things everything, Not for her, Transform to Better Place, Just after 49 days not become ghost, Actually she still wants to become ghost, She not necessarily become ghost, She is very caring, Still want to see grandson, Still not rushing to leave, Okay then slowly persuade her, Properly chant sutra, Slowly persuade her, Want to accompany her, Also not helping say 49 days, You must become Buddha immediately, Also not like this, Because everyone’s condition different.

Like I have known, I have relative participated, Just have some old mothers, They just chanted Buddha chanted very well, Actually when she passed away, All had some auspicious signs, Although not necessarily went to Land of Ultimate Bliss, And Bodhisattva had come to receive, Maybe received to what I call that Intermediate Station.

But problem is she is how, But because she always to grandson very not saying care, She just felt for example grandson happen to next year want to take college entrance exam, That is to say old grandma not leaving because she, She also not saying worried or worry no, She just suddenly, Just Bodhisattva all came to receive, But she always felt, Then I want to accompany grandson smoothly take college entrance exam, Because she during life just hoped, See grandson smoothly take college entrance exam, She just relieved.

Of course there are specially exaggerated ones, She really just in human world, Maybe stayed for five six years, She just wants to see child marry daughter-in-law, Grandson marry daughter-in-law, Really have everyone.

But usually such condition, Just say old mother also not attachment, Because you after passing away, Life condition very different, And they were seriously chanting Buddha, So I don’t indicate say after 49 days, They definitely just have to how, Then boat just going to sail, Plane just going to take off, Every one different, So this has a little meaning, Bodhisattva also won’t just say, Then you not come I just go, No, Because time space to everyone, Once pass away enters an absolute state.

Like this, I really speaking is, Because really I have participated, Or passed this kind old mother, Just she 1 year later then left, But she just could, Could go to good place, But she really just 1 year later, Then 3 years later, I highest participation, Have 3 years later then left, But this 1 year 3 years, They just in a special condition, They also not ghosts, They just a like between god ghost special condition, Just glittering with golden light, Glittering with white light like this, Then they at that moment, Still chanting Buddha, Still doing morning and evening chanting, Just they still doing morning and evening chanting like this, Very interesting.

So everyone, Not quite same, But I think no matter what, They finally when leave, When transform, Isn’t it want to base on their transformation as goal, So you only need to figure out, Speak ugly point, Finally mom dad going to pass away or mom dad passed away, We just have to measure a bit, Mom dad exactly next will how transform, You want to understand her belief profession etc., That is to say you want to take her life’s good evil etc., Still need to slightly calculate, We want to help parents, Take kindness they did want show out, If they did some, Especially these evil or killing karma etc. they did, Is because want to educate us, Or want to take care of us, Want to raise us, We of course want to help them, Take evil karma transform or cover, Through chanting sutra, Or through doing good deeds, Or through releasing life, Or through offering into monks, There are many energy transformation ways, Buddhist scriptures all record many.

These things actually compare to us, Frankly speaking all shouldn’t do when passing away, Doing when passing away all is temporary hugging Buddha’s feet, So during life should do, Just like I now, I from practicing Buddhism at that time, For Mom Wang go to Land of Ultimate Bliss, I already busy for 30 something years, Still want to busy for several years, So this matter is, Everything base on transformation as goal, Therefore of course now after passing away, Once if say, Most I just said 80% people didn’t prepare, So once in transformation process, At least you don’t, Because doing what Tree Burial, Sea Burial these Eco-friendly Burial, Randomly bury mess, Finally you just again tortured, You obstructed your parents, Finally your parents instead here suffer, In Tree Burial place basking in sun basking to deathly alive, Later so miserable, Then also no ability communicate with you still trapped there, Then no way, You directly home sleep your big head sleep, You all no way communicate just suffering, I see you also can’t be good anywhere, Impossible like this your career will be good, You will truly happy healthy, Impossible, That all still has connection.

So why I say this thing, Everyone needs to pay attention, When you properly take this thing, Carefully handle well, Before they pass away, You just slightly understand a bit these knowledge, Then make a good choice, Usually have matter no matter ask him to understand, Also collect a bit data, He wants to understand, This later you also have to use, Or you at least your partner has to use, So finally, Okay even if finally didn’t do well, We simply still want to transform, Just like talk infant spirit etc., Today of course no chance to talk, Second theme later have chance then say.

Only need to chant sutra before sleep less than 20 minutes, just depends if you willing or not

So just say, This part just need to base on their transformation as priority, You still have can say, Buddhism or in many religion ways, Transformation is not very difficult, Just you every day willing before sleep for parents chant Universal Door Chapter, Amitabha Sutra, 2 combined read up, You only 15 minutes, 20 minutes only, Just see if you willing or not, But ordinary people also not willing, Before sleep chanting sutra all chant less than 20 minutes, You take a shower need 20 minutes, Take 20 minutes chant sutra, If your parents are suffering, Or when just passed away, You chant 20 minutes sutra you can’t chant, You tell me you filial not right, Or your own karma also too deep heavy, Your own karma all can’t pay back, Still can help your parents, So just say family, You want what later have ability, Method able to accompany parents transform, Everything reason funeral is by them transform, Reason they transform, You of course have no way to verify, But eventually will represent someone understands can verify.

Just before this, If you, Say in his during life before passing away, You most hard for them do, You don’t need every day do, You one week, At least why I always, Sunday encourage everyone, Morning all in live broadcast chanting sutra, Just you every week, You just every week chant chant chant like this, One week chant one hour, Front half section just half hour, This is me, I why am propagating this matter, I hope let everyone also form this hope, Because DIY then can do, You just don’t need depend on others, So everything is for this goal.

Actually say after I pass away, Say these you listen heaven very complicated, No I said all, Just deceased you need to assess clearly, Then you choose a good funeral way, Just now you usually temporary hug Buddha’s feet randomly blind do, Will appear many troubles, So still need to go research, I think today actually is, Discussed key point is here.

Without good roots, merit, karma, going to Land of Ultimate Bliss is very hard thing

Just also discussed some, So Buddhist speaking, I finally regarding, buddhist friends speaking, I again tell everyone, Going to Land of Ultimate Bliss is very hard thing, Not easy, Without good roots, merit, karma, These three all don’t have, You can’t go not so easy, Not you say RIP, Wish you go to Land of Ultimate Bliss, Not so easy.

You now want to immigrate to US, Immigrate Canada all not so easy, You base on what feel go to Land of Ultimate Bliss, Go to Land of Ultimate Bliss compare to immigrate to US, Should be hard 800 times, 80 thousand times, You have to do something, You need to work hard, Just you want to go to heaven, Also not naturally can go, You must be a kind person, You need to do good, You do good not enough, You must mind God, Mind Virgin Mary, You always need constantly every day pray, You when eating all need pray, You need mind Jesus Christ, How can be you, Just because you are Christian can go, Not so simple.

Spiritual World Halfway House

But just said, There is one thing say, Now there are many Halfway House, So-called just say Buddha Bodhisattva, I feel in these 1000 something years, Just seem recent few hundred years, Have some transformations, And human world, Should entered virtual world, Community etc. we like this, That is to say inside virtual world, People or among people, In transformation this space transformation, Actually there are some, Some Zone, Some Interface Zone, This actually all are some, Buddha Bodhisattva and saints created.

So actually no way temporarily go ascend to heaven, Temporarily can go to Land of Ultimate Bliss, Temporarily go to heaven, At least able to base on going to Halfway House effort.

Because going to Halfway House, Main reason, First no need in this human world continue entangle can’t leave, Second also no need, At least you say in just said, Front said you in cemetery, You in some Columbarium public cemetery area, You just become mountain stronghold, Everyone just enter that triad, Inside is, Your parents will inside that triad, There serving, No meaning.

Then I just said, 99% people will become ghosts, Ghost just describe that form, Ghost has many kinds, Very many kinds, In past live broadcast discussed many, It has very many layers, Very many different states, This state can’t see another state, Then of course especially mainly still in passing away moment if is painful have many regrets, Have encountered negative emotions.

I specially mainly talk about this point, That is to say during passing away, If very indifferent, Although not seen, Religious Belief traction, You also didn’t do what good deeds, You usually still ate so much meat, Everywhere killing lives, Ate so much seafood, You base on what can ascend to heaven, You can’t ascend to heaven, So you still need to pay, So then you pay people what should pay pay.

Need not rely on others, rely on yourself, life and death rely on yourself, not masters

So just say, Finally, I just do some so-called following karma, Doing accurate this aspect things, Rebirth blanket I promise everyone I definitely will, Because now nobody does, And my this part, Have a relatively deep setting, I have some specific thoughts, Then ashes this thing, Like this thing, Everyone can also buy, Self you go to Kyoto, Go to Tokyo travel, Just self can buy.

Hope I take my so many years, I feel myself because, Many things all need seek temple seek others, Clearly inside Buddhist scriptures all things we ourselves can do, Then we ourselves with Buddha Bodhisattva connection, Especially for me, You just seriously with Guanyin Bodhisattva connect, You not via others, No need rely on masters, Just all rely on yourself, Because life and death all yourself, All not rely on masters.

Tibetan Buddhism reason, Although need rely on Guru’s power, But you also need every day offer to Guru, You with Guru have enough connection, Your Guru’s mana also comes from Buddha Bodhisattva, You just come up Buddhism pass a layer, So finally is, Rely on ourselves, Then this always is my in, Buddhism practice value, So recently we will, This Line group, I ask friend help, Okay anyway tomorrow first chant sutra, Interested, Friends then say see tomorrow, Good night.

Reference

• Weekend Ethereal Night: 1/ Discussing tree burial, sea burial and various eco-friendly burial options, assessment and deep considerations during the season of life and death. 2/ Resolving the multi-layered life karma entanglements of love, money, law, and spirit, avoiding the lure of ghost words and the abyss of ignorance. - YouTube